2014年3月22日星期六

Updates




It's been an amazing journey of life for the past few months. Ups and downs of course. Well, up, mostly.


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Firstly, I got myself a job and I am surprised that I got the job.

Getting a job is exciting but working life is not easy at all. I have to wake up early in the morning (I don't get to skip my job like I skip my class while I was still a student), struggle through traffics, rushing my footsteps to the office to face paperwork that I am not bothered to judge whether if they are interesting or not. It's not easy to be a salesperson. Planning, persistence, patience, confidence and communication skills are needed and I am surprised that I manage to survive after almost four months. I never thought that I would ended up in this field when I was younger.

Well, I think, no matter what job you are having, the most important thing is to always keep ourselves learning and keep enhancing ourselves. Working takes up a lot of our time, but we really shouldn't let it kills off our passions. Working has never stopped me from doing the things I like. I still read, write, dance, playing my guitars, spending time studying chess games and still trying to discover new things to learn.

Life is meaningless without passion, and we should not stop living our life with passion.

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Secondly, I met an amazing girl. She is the most incredible girl I have ever met.

I knew this girl from the dance club. Few months ago, I barely knew this girl and not even well-acquitted with her. I just knew that she is a very good dancer with good musicality. She is so passive and quiet, but it did not take me long to notice that she is a very mentally-wholesome girl.

Long story short, I fell in love. We fell in love.

It's not easy to find a girl that can make you feel so much. When she's the reason behind your smile, your hard works, your sacrifices, your happiness, your worries, and the love that you are giving, you know that she is the right one. It is not easy to find a person that loves you back wholeheartedly and truthfully, but I am lucky and grateful because I found one.

It is amazing to see myself grow so much and change so much (positively) for a person.

I am in love, deeply, and I never felt this way before.

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Can we quantify love? Should we quantify love?

Love is love, in it's purest form. It doesn't matter how much you can give, and how much you get in return (even there's no return in the end). Once it's given sincerely and truthfully, it is love. It would be ridiculous to say something like "I love you three kilograms today since I owe you three kilograms of love last week. Can you give me six kilograms of love next month?"

Love is not a trade, love is a gift, and it is okay to not give love back if there's a good reason. It has to be given voluntarily and truthfully, that's what makes love special. If you love someone, you shouldn't worry if you can love them back the same way they love you or not. Why? It's simple, because love cannot be quantify.

Life is simple. If you think you are capable of loving them and you love them, just love them.

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Oh, I am addicted to Chinese songs again.

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