Mum..will you and dad switch off the light for tonight 8.30 to 9.30 ? Earth hour..
OKLAH, though ma a bit scared of the dark :-(
Go have chat with daddy lah..since me and bro is not around, you two can cuddle morenaturally..just one hour, your future scientist son will be glad.
HO LAH :-D
Okay, that's a very interesting conversation, a very solid evidence showing that my mom is very cute and she is physically growing older but growing back to the younger age mentally. Both me and daddy agreed the ways mummy approach things and ability of socialize were regressing, back to the 10 years old 'Ah Girl' way. She read a lot of self-enrichment books, ironically she can't really apply it in her life, in some way. Sometimes I even have to correct her and giving her advice.
So, this is my 'Regression Theory' that came out with
We always have to 'Tam (cantonese)' her to make her happy.Bringing my mum going out to shopping center and restaurant is like bringing a young girl to explore the world. I need to hold her hand, I need to point her where to go, I have to make sure that she don't lost her way out, I have to tell her what food is nice and what is not, brining her to eat new food that she never had before. I never know she like creamy cakes and ice cream that much until I bring her out few months ago (noticed that ice cream and cakes are food that fancied by little girl ?). The thing that don't changed is that she is still paying. How she took care of the younger me then, was applying back to her now. And I feel good. Obviously she is in a phase of her life where nothing else matter except for her two handsome boys and her hubby.
She is a lucky woman because she married my daddy, which always back her up and gives her lessons about life. We like babysitting my mum and making sure that she can do everything she can do like an 10 years old girl without being hurt.
My mum is not a good listener. My mum is capable of creating awkward situation during a conversation with people, but not me. My mum always overreacting. My mum has too much feelings and she is very emotional. My mum always worry over small little stuffs and me. My mum can be easily cheated or amazed or flattered by some cheap talks and tricks. It's like giving her a candy and she will compromise. Sounds like some typical characteristic of some 10 years old girl ain't it ?
When I was young, she is my mum and I am her baby boy. When I was at 10, both my mum and I were monster. When I was 17, my mum is like my friend. And now I will be 20 soon, and she is like my daughter and she behaves like one. Funny, but it's true.
I don't care if she cooked the same meal to me everyday. She don't care if I always being harsh on her whenever I am correcting her. What matters the most is that she is my mum and I'm her boy, she loves me and I love her. And that's it.